This section is hard to list. These guys don't really have names or characteristics just yet. I started answering a lot of inquiries on the dating sites, due to the lack of eligible male volume in my area of New England. What happened was a backlash of sorts. With all of the eligible attractive men in Houston, I still had a short list. I have a few solid, quality suitors and I was perfectly happy with the small pool I had created.
New England is a bit of a different story. It's like I have been stock piling guys for the bitterly cold winter. My little black book is bulging at the seams. I have never talked to this many people at the same time. I just don't know how to pull back at this point. I am not seeing anyone, but if I hope to change that and create a comfortable ground to meet someone, I need to clear the little black book of all but the top 5 and go from there.
I have 3 guys that I know will make the top 5 right off hand. One will inevitably just be a friend, one could be much more and the other is getting laid as soon as he brings his ass to my town. I'm ready for him. The rest just fall into a category of names I can't keep straight in my cell phone. I am texting and returning messages all day. So, it's time to scale back. There's no quality in this much quantity.
- Poly Amory
- I am the product-child of the Women's Lib movement. I have a grade A education, a promising career and no immediate goal for children or a spouse. I will be 30 this year and I have spent many years in monogamous relationships. In and out of 1 to 2 year relationships, I always dated with the goal of meeting someone special. Most of the time I didn't date. Most of the time I found myself falling into relationship after relationship. These relationships were doomed to fail. They were all built on expectations that were, for me, unattainable. I love meeting new people. I find sex enjoyable and empowering and I am not happy when I am monogamous. So, after my last break-up, after taking some time to grieve, I decided to cut my societal puppet strings and get back in the game. I set out on a mission to spend the Summer of 2010 dating as many men as possible. My only initial criteria was attraction. My only limitation was - no love and no structured relationships. This is my date by date tale of what life can be like outside of the goals of relationships and love.
- ► 2011 (78)
- ▼ October (18)